OKay, so i've recently had a meltdown.... :<?

I have recently had a total MELTDOWN! I have just been So upset about not conceiving after having this last period which was usually late... anyways, I have noticed my are REALLY starting to swell and they hurt. This is not normal for me. My only swell right BEFORE I start AF. And 90% of the time they don't hurt at all. I just got off of AF on the 19th. Now, my hurt, even the shower hurts them and they fell HUGE to me! Before that i noticed how much I've been eating lately.. A lot. has anyone ever had a weird period while prego? Mine was really late and It was more of a discharge than a bloody period. Although I did bleed a lil bit for about 2 days. Is this just another "weird thing" happening to me or what? pls help ;)